By now you know my blogs are winded.. this one is certainly no exception. I hope you like this story, my experience today moved me so I had to share. I could give you a brief picture but that ain't the way this girl rolls ;)
For some reason I've struggled this year with the Holiday "spirit". My tree is up and it has lights but only 2 ornaments. No other decorations are out, not even the antler collect I so prize. Today changed that. Holidays are about family and friends and giving. Giving of yourself, not gifts. Love and caring, making people smile who otherwise may not be able to without some encouragement. Today I have felt the love and the warm, loving hand of God. I honestly saw it with my own eyes in one beautiful man and a little black dog. Here's how:
On very short notice the company I work for agreed to host the Candlelighter's Candy Cane Lane event that was held today. This event is held every year by the Candlelighter's (who are some of the most incredible people I know). I work with their president, his wife is their volunteer coordinator. Their story is a blog in itself.
Among other amazing things the Candlelighter's assist families with children going through Leukemia treatment and recovery. At Christmas time they invite those who are struggling financially to come choose gifts for all the children in their family. The gifts they receive are collected by Angels over the year and stored until Candy Cane Lane event happens.
We started planning this just before Thanksgiving. This last Thursday the gifts were moved into our shop by a bunch of great guys. They were sorted, "priced" and arranged by a bunch of wonderful women. To give you a visual of what it looked like: Picture five of the huge rack sections at Costco - 3 high, another industrial wire rack with 5 shelves, five (maybe more) 6' and 8' tables all stacked and packed with gifts. Sorted by gender and age. I cannot even imagine how many gifts there were, I would guess thousands. It was certainly a sight to behold. I can't find my camera right now but will post pics when I do. Another area with stands and 12 - 15 people to wrap. A table with gift cards for the older kids and several other volunteers helping the parents "shop". Quite a production. And of course, Christmas Music for the mood.
My baby brother, Bob, land his wonderful wife, Gretchen lost Audrey, their second granddaughter to Leukemia 9 years ago, she was 6 months old. Bob is a gentleman and a gentle man. He talks big but is a pussy cat underneath. I knew he was the perfect Santa so I asked him and he graciously agreed to do it. He even brought his own elf, Beth, and his hand-maiden, Gretchen, to help.
We had crafts and activities for the kids in our "Tech Center". The parents would bring the kids in, get them settled then head to "Santa's Workshop" to pick out the gifts for their children. After "shopping" they would leave the gift choices with "elf" volunteers who wrapped them while the parents went back into the tech center to hang with the kids. We had some incredible teenagers and their parents there to help with the kids. There was cookies, hot cider, tea, cocoa, and Chex mix to munch on. Activities included: Decorating Cookies, Bingo, Facepainting, coloring, Holiday Card making, painting ornaments, and a little black Cairn Terrier named Happy to do his repertoire of tricks.
I'm not sure what the total head count was but I'm sure it was almost 150, not including the volunteers. The majority of them children, some in treatment, but you couldn't tell, they all had smiles on their faces.
My one hero is Brother Bob. Bob was the perfect Santa. He hugged gently, like the arms of an angel he would swaddle those who felt the Santa spirit within this wonderful, gentle man. I saw very few children pull away from him, like in the stores. Some would watch carefully from a distance how he interacted with others then, slowly, quietly, would come to him for a soft-spoken word or a tender pat of the hand. Ultimately, most would eventually snuggle close for a warm Santa hug. That's Christmas, warm, loving and giving of ones self.
Happy is my other hero in this story. Pat Gentry: I hope you know how I love this little black dog at my side and how he's changed my life. Thank you for trusting me with this precious little man.
Physically, Happy is 10" at the shoulder and maybe 12 pounds (that pre-neuter belly band just doesn't fit anymore). Emotionally and spiritually he is 10 feet tall. With no leash, (only a cute, white bow tie) and only dog treats for rewards he stayed with me. He waived, bowed, rolled over, played "bang, dead dog", went night night, spun, and danced for the children for 3 hours with only 3 short breaks. When I asked him to "pet pet" he would stay still for any number of kids to mob him. At one point, while laying "spread eagle" on his belly, he had 4 kids surrounding him: 2 kids on his side petting his back, one at his tail flipping the long hair hanging on the end, and the fourth at his head petting his fluffy ears. Not once did he worry about any of them, not once did he look at the child playing with his tail, not once did he ask to leave, not once did he move away from their little exploring hands. Throughout the night he did some shopping, picking up some cookie bits dropped on the ground. Once he accepted a gift of a marshmallow from a little boy...gently offered and gently taken, before I could stop him. All in all he was at my heal, ready for any direction I gave him. Although, ultimately he made the decision as to what was proper.
One girl that came (she was maybe 13 or 14 yrs old) was a concern of mine. When she arrived she was in a wheelchair being pushed by her Dad. Her eyes were sad, when she spoke it was monotoned, lacking the lustre of a teenage girl. I felt so bad for her, I knew she must be in pain, whether it was physical or emotional didn't matter. I got irritated at Happy when we first met her. When I asked him to greet her he turned his back to her. I was mortified! I picked him up for her to pet him and, again, he turned his head away while she begrudgingly reached to touch him. I had never seen him react that way. I put him down, her dad pushed her away and I headed for my office and his crate thinking maybe he needed a break. Then he saw another child arriving and wriggled to go greet him. Ok, he knows something I don't...
We saw this girl off and on for the next hour and a half or so. Each time there was more and more spark in her eyes. By the time it was time for her to leave she was beaming. When we came upon her for the last time she was in the same spot where we first met. I moved with Hap toward her and he trotted right up to her feet in the wheelchair. He then play bowed, gently stood up on his hind legs and rested his front feet on her knee. She reached over and patted his head and he got down. She had apologized and he had accepted. She then flipped the foot rests out of the way and got out of her chair, touched my arm to steady herself and sat on the floor! Happy jumped into her lap like they had known each other for years. I was terrified he would break her so I glanced at her dad to see if he was concerned. He, also, had a huge smile on his face. After petting Hap all over she reached for my hands to help her up, talking non-stop about her little Pomeranian. She pulled out her cell phone and showed me the cutest damn pics of her and her dog then said "oh, I should show Santa!". Dad got the chair and she said "no, I'm fine, just park it." I could tell he was pleased. By the time I got to Santa's area she was chatting like a teenage girl and showing Santa her pictures.. Santa also had noticed the sad little girl that came to us just a few hours before. He was as touched as I was.
So Happy and I have the calling. We'll work on Therapy Dog status this year.
Oz, my little big man, also got the chance to meet some kids.. His overwhelming enthusiasm was very appreciated but they stayed clear.. He'll be the snuggler Therapy dog when he grows up, I have no doubt. His bag of tricks will be different from his brothers.... He's the Ozman!
Thank you all for reading. I love ya all and decorations will go up before I leave for the CRCTC Holiday Party tomorrow afternoon!